
Last week I mentioned that my interest was piqued by the idea of a capsule wardrobe, but I wasn't sure if I could pull it off. But, I have this thing where as soon as I let myself think I can't do something, all of a sudden I'm on a mission to prove to myself that I can. I tend to get obsessed and move full steam ahead. Go big or go home, or something. (The capsule wardrobe isn't the only thing on that list I've all but decided to make happen, but that's another topic for another day).
As a normal person (i.e. not a fashion blogger, without thousands of dollars for a brand new wardrobe), I wanted to see if and how I could make a capsule wardrobe work for me. Over the last 6ish months I've really made an effort to simplify my life and my lifestyle, have less stuff, buy less stuff, keep only what I need and actually like, so it was only a matter of time before I applied that philosophy to my wardrobe.
I am in no way a fashion expert, so please take everything in this post with a grain of salt. Actually, I'm not really very fashionable at all, which I think motivates me even more to at least attempt to have some fashion sense - even if it's with a limited wardrobe. My intention here is not to provide a comprehensive how-to guide (because, again, I'm no expert), but to document my trials and errors in hopefully creating a better, more cohesive wardrobe. This is very much an in-progress project, so if you're following along, we'll both be learning as I go. I'm going to be like Sarah Koenig and these posts are going to be like Serial (except I'll go ahead and tell you that no one is on trial for murder...sorry to disappoint). +1000 for you if you have any idea what I'm talking about.
My first step was to clean out my closet. I thought I had a handle on my wardrobe situation, especially since I've been purging like it's my job since this summer, but I still had a lot of clothes I was hanging on to for various reasons. I'm not sure yet if my ultimate goal is to have a true capsule wardrobe, which is why I'm looking at this as more of an experiment than anything. But, in keeping with the spirit of the capsule wardrobe, I tried to be as ruthless as possible. I wanted to be able to narrow my everyday wardrobe down to about 20-30 pieces that would provide me with a lot of options for different combinations. My ideal wardrobe is one that I love and feel good wearing. These are some of the guidelines I used in deciding what to keep and what to toss.
Figure out what you love.
My first objective was to single out the pieces that I really, truly love to wear. For me, those items ended up being a new tunic tee, a chunky cable cardigan, and a checkered button-up. Yes, those were the only items in my closet that I really loved. Can you see why I was so desperate for an overhaul?
Admit you were wrong.
One of the immediate things I realized was that I just didn't like a lot of my clothes. There was nothing wrong with them, some were barely even worn and/or less than a year old, but I just didn't feel like they fit my style. I don't really like shopping so sometimes I tend to buy things just because they're familiar or they're easy (like the approximately 10 J. Crew sweaters I own that are, in actuality, a littttttle too preppy for my tastes). I also tend to buy colorful clothes (see: J. Crew sweaters) because I think I'm supposed to wear colors...even though I don't really like colors. Once I admitted to myself that crewneck sweaters with Boston terriers on them didn't exactly give off the vibe I was going for, and I'm actually happy just wearing black, gray, and white thankyouverymuch, it was a lot easier to let them go.
Stop waiting for the right season.
I had a lot of clothes that I hung onto over the summer because I was sure I'd wear them when fall rolled around. And now fall has been here for like 2 months and I haven't worn them yet, and I didn't wear them last fall either so I'm probably never going to.
Forget the price tag.
This was a tough pill to swallow. My only solace in realizing how much money I had pointlessly spent on clothes I didn't really want was that I could probably sell them on eBay and at least make a little money back. I'm still working on accepting that the $200 pair of Paige skinnies I bought in April don't fit quite right, probably because I should have gotten a size smaller (the harder problem here might actually be how damn hard it is to find jeans that are a decent fit). But give me some time and a new pair of jeans that actually do fit (if such a thing exists? Where are these mythical pants?!) and I'll send them on to a new home too.
After I applied these guidelines to my closet, I ended up with a much slimmer wardrobe. Next I picked out all the pieces I wasn't making excuses for, probably about 20 items total, and used them as a starting point for my capsule wardrobe. Full disclosure: even though I eBayed and donated a lot of clothes, I still kept a small stash of clothes I wasn't 100% sure about parting with. I moved them to the back of my closet so they're not mixed in with my "real" clothes. Out of sight, out of mind, right? It was too scary to think about really only having that limited of a wardrobe, so for now I'm keeping them there in case I panic. I hope I won't end up needing them and I'll see that I really can live off a capsule wardrobe.
It's only been a few days, but so far, it's actually felt really refreshing not having that many clothes to choose from! I've been in a very "Use what you've got" mood lately, and I like that this is forcing me to It's kind of fun coming up with different combinations, especially because some of them are outfits I don't think I would have come up with if I hadn't forced myself. Exactly what pieces I thought I needed in my wardrobe, how I decided on them, and some of the outfits I've created so far...next time, on The Capsule Wardrobe Experiment.
I need to do this! I get so attached to my clothes though!!! I have several items that Ive never even worn!
ReplyDeleteCleaning out my drawers and closets are on my to do list. I think I donated 3-4 bags last year. I started listening to Serial this week - fantastic!
ReplyDeleteOh... If you find the mythical jeans that fit please send them my way. I would pay A LOT of money for jeans that actually fit. I really really really need to do this. My closet is embarrassing!
ReplyDeleteLOL, will do! I thought paying a lot of money was the answer, but I'm not sure now. The search continues!
DeleteAbout once every 8-12 weeks I try to weed through my closet and give a few friends clothes I haven't worn at all and I always feel so refreshed after!!! I hardly ever buy clothes, and I can't wait to get out of debt to stock up my wardrobe wth pieces I really LOVE!!!
ReplyDeleteI've seen other bloggers do this and been intrigued! I'd love to simplify the getting ready process... but I'm worried I'd cheat too often! Can't wait to see how this goes for you!
ReplyDeleteYay Serial!
ReplyDeleteI am not a capsule wardrobe person. I love a lot of options. When I love something hard, I will buy more than one. I will then wear it over and over forever.
That being said, I laid waste to my wardrobe this year, and when I bought new things I really concentrated on where the holes were/what worked for me, etc.
Since my winter clothes have come to the front, I've been a stickler on wearing EVERYTHING. And if I don't like it, making sure it gets washed and goes right into the donation pile. I'm finished holding on to things that aren't working.
Eeek! I'm so glad you took the plunge. I still have yet to commit. I'll be really interested to see how your experiment goes.
ReplyDeleteI probably won't try the capsule wardrobe thing, but I do try to be honest with myself when it is time to let go of some things. I got rid of a lot of stuff this year, and have more to go through. I like following along and seeing how people make this work for them!
ReplyDeleteGreat guidelines. I'm definitely not suited for a capsule wardrobe, but I do purge clothes pretty regularly and like to keep only what I know I'll wear. I have a 3/3 rule, which I think I've told you about? If it takes me longer than 3 seconds to think of 3 times I've worn it OR 3 ways I can wear it (this applies to buying new clothes too), I don't need it.
ReplyDeleteAlso, Serial. I haven't tried it out yet but apparently I'm the last person (or blogger at least) on earth who doesn't listen to it. On your recommendation though, I'm thinking I have to change that
Ok I want you to know I read this first thing this morning but I wanted more time to comment and then I just plum forgot, so forgive me ;)
ReplyDeleteI have read so much about capsule wardrobes and purging, but your points really opened my eyes. I am so the same, I have items that I thought I should wear. I purged last weekend but am going to try again this weekend to get rid of some stuff after I've admitted I was wrong about some stuff and oh gosh, the price tag one gets me. Honestly though I think there are maybe 2 or 3 things in my closet I really really love. And for work, zero things. And I wear a lot of work clothes. gah.
I don't think I'll ever jump on the serial train, sounds terrifying.
I love that you're giving this a try! I've been cleaning out my closet the past few months-- mainly because the things I had were so old-- I found something from high school! Now that I've got rid of the old things or stuff that was kind of cheap to begin with, I can easily see what I have/need. I've gained and lost weight the past 4 years so I hadn't been into buying anything new, but I'm slowly trying to build up my wardrobe with things that I need! Also, I think we might start Serial on our Thanksgiving drive!
ReplyDeleteI have been very intrigued by this myself! I can't wait to see your updates.
ReplyDeleteI'm definitely really interested in this idea. A few months ago, I got rid of about 40 pieces of clothes -- and my closet is still full! I think some purging is necessary.
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