I realized recently that my Ironman is 3 weeks after my 29th birthday, which seems insignificant except that my mom had me

My feelings on having kids have changed a lot throughout my 20s. When I was 20-22ish I really thought that Ben and I would have kids in a couple years, around 25ish. We got married when we were 22/23, and some of our friends started having kids around that time, so it just seemed logical. Then I started teaching and my career became really important to me, and it dawned on me that maybe I