We have more in common than you think. The bottom is that neither of us has free time because we both chose to fill all hours of the day with things that are more important to us than sitting poolside with a cocktail and the latest issue of Cosmo (is that even still popular? I don't know because contrary to your 

And lest you think I'm just some oddity, let me assure you that it's not just me. Maybe it's just that I carefully choose the company I keep, but I don't have any friends who are living life in this picture you've painted. 

One stark contrast that we can agree on, though, is the issue of self. You're right, every task I fill my day with - it's all for me. Where we seem to differ is on whether